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My Take on Friendship

Before I came here… unknown to me… my then fiancé [A.K.A Hubby or Sweetest] was looking for my “soon-to-be-friend” Filipina. Crazy as it may sound but that is the truth.

When I finally came here… unknown to me… he drove me to a nearby town… and my then soon-to-be-husband stopped in front of a purple house and told me… “this is where your new Filipina friend – Medy lives”.

What the heck?

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I don't exactly know what Hubby was thinking back then or what was his definition of friendship but Medy... is the only Filipina friend I have here in Maine.


Looking back now… I was glad that Hubby did find me a friend because she became the sister that I never had and my family away from my very own.

Well, I did ask him why he did that in the first place and he told me... "I was looking for a Filipina weeks before you came here because you might get homesick and bored and will change your mind and will go back home and leave me".

So I realized that he thought, with a Filipina friend, those concerns will never occur. I was really touched and happy that it did work out between me and Medy.

And I am happy that Hubby sometimes think of some silly things [that will surely never cross my mind] to make me happy.

Comments

Chie Wilks said…
hello amiga..salamat sa pagbisita at sa comments... it is so sweet of your hubby to find you a friend there...heheh takot baka maiwanan... Have a great weekend to the both of you sis...
Ruthi said…
@Chie... thanks for the visit as well Amiga. Miss you.
eng said…
ohhh! ruthi, hes such a sweetie, your sweetest is.he has gone to such trouble making sure you'll feel at home...ahh! that was touching!

off line topic: welcome aboard girl!feel at home at salitype.

eng of salitype
Ruthi said…
@Eng... yes, I thought it was weird at first... then, I realized I did need on especially when we were planning for the wedding... I realized that I need someone there with me because my family is in the Phils.
Ruthi said…
@Eng... thanks for the warm welcome to TSS... I am happy to be a member.
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